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Rüzgar
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Unremembered
Thursday, 5 February 2026
Notes on Compositus Philosophy
Compositus Philosophy 05/02/2026
Monday, 19 January 2026
Before Knowing
nothing is guaranteed.
The day waits quietly,
undecided.
You make plans,
neatly arranged in your mind,
and life moves them elsewhere.
A surprise appears,
small or sudden,
and the direction changes.
Or nothing changes at all
except your awareness.
You notice, for a moment,
that life has not treated you gently,
but it has made you stronger,
in ways you did not choose.
And you step into the day
carrying both uncertainty
and gratitude,
side by side.
Friday, 26 December 2025
Everyone knew my son’s life except me.
This is about a mother who finds out her son hid his love and marriage from his her and from their family.
I carried you before I had a name for fear.
I learned your breathing before I learned my own rest.
Every step you took away from me
I followed with prayer, not with eyes.
They say a mother always knows.
They lie.
I knew your childhood.
I knew your hunger.
I knew the weight of your silence
and trusted it as truth.
Somewhere along the way
your life became a room
I was not allowed to enter.
I opened my home.
I set the table.
I cooked with care, with pride, with love.
I welcomed her into my house
as a guest, as a friend,
never knowing I was feeding
my son’s lover,
my son’s wife.
I smiled.
I served tea.
I asked polite questions
while a truth sat at my table
and did not speak to me.
You shared glances I did not understand.
You carried a story I was not invited into.
And I stood there believing
I was included
because I was present.
And then the truth arrived
already worn by other mouths.
Already discussed.
Already judged.
“Everyone knew my son’s life except me.”
Do you know what that does to a mother
who thought she was the last safe place
not the last to be told.
It is not the love that breaks me.
It is not the choice.
It is not even the distance.
It is the knowledge
that I offered my kindness
to a reality that hid from me
and let me believe
I was respected.
I would have listened.
I would have cried in private.
I would have learned how to hold this truth
without dropping it.
But you did not give me that chance.
So I grieve twice.
Once for the child I raised.
Once for the woman I thought I was
in his life.
I am still your mother.
But now I must learn
how to be one
after being left outside my own truth.
And that
is the heaviest lesson of all.